Saturday, August 13, 2011

My Salty Guilt Free Late Night Snack

Kale is not my friend when its raw but it sure is tasty when covered in olive oil and salt :)
Ive always needed to have some thing salty right before bed but couldnt afford the high calories salty snacks to reach my goal
So instead I tear off chunks of kale off the leaf (make sure not to include the tough middle vertical part; it's too bitter tasting)
I usually tear off pieces around the size off half a dollar bill or smaller
Then I pour some olive oil on my hands and bunch over the leaves just to speckle them with
Flat them all out on a baking sheet, shake a little salt over them evenly
and pop them in the oven at 350 degrees and WHALA!
Take them out in about ten minutes with the edges are barley golden brown.
:) Yummy


Sunday, July 3, 2011

Setting Specific Goals = Success

Came across this story that is AMAZING
go to this link!
This is what the article writer learned from it. And I had to agree also. So here you go, read below.
Set specific goals - don’t “try to get in shape.”  Determine specifically what “in shape” means to you.  Quantify it, put a timestamp on it, and then start taking direct steps in that directions.
DECIDE IF YOU REALLY WANT IT – People come to me all the time and say they want to “get abs” or “pack on muscle” but immediately start to backtrack once I tell them what to do.  “But I can’t give that up” or “but what if I did this instead?”  Remember: if what you were doing was working, you’d already want to be where you want to be.  If you want incredible results, you’re going to need to make incredible sacrifices.  If you’re satisfied with 80% of the way there, there’s nothing wrong with that…just don’t expect to get into the 99th percentile with anything less than 99% of your potential effort.
Make it a challenge - I’m not telling you to put up 500 bucks to force yourself into exercise…but I’m not telling you that it’s a bad idea either.  Rather than being angry and associating exercise with a negative feeling (which makes it easier to skip), focus on realigning your attitude.  Saint created a negative association with not exercising (losing $500), and as he started exercising he added a positive correlation to it (feeling better and looking better).  This shift in his thinking built up momentum and carried him forward.
Your diet is the most important thing – Don’t try to outrun your fork; hours of cardio can only get you so far when it comes to getting into elite shape.  Instead, focusing on CLEANING UP YOUR DIET and you will have far greater success more quickly.  More real foods, less fake foods, grains, and other carbs, and maximize vegetables.  It doesn’t need to be difficult.  
Strength train – Had Saint never started lifting weights, he might have made it down to 10% body fat but certainly wouldn’t have the muscle mass that he does now.  Fortunately, he put his time and effort into getting stronger and faster, which helped him keep the muscle he already had while also adding new muscle; it also allowed him to only shred the fat and keep the good stuff.  I’m not telling you to join a gym, but I am telling you to start doing some form of strength training because it’s so damn important.  Although I haven’t set foot in a gym in five months, I’ve been able to pack on eight to ten pounds of muscle in that time by following the body weight routines outside. You don’t need a gym, but you do need a plan that pushes you to get stronger.
“But I’m a woman and I don’t want to get too bulky!” Unless you’re on steroids or eating 5000 calories a day, you will NOT get bulky…not only that, but heavy strength training is the only way to get that “toned” look you’re after.  I’ll be featuring a female success story soon that is full of strength training with barbells and heavy weights…and awesome results (with that look you’re after).  Trust me on this one.
Track your results – And I don’t just mean stepping on a scale.  Take measurements.  Take photos.  buy a body fat caliper and test yourself every few weeks.  You’ll be able to tell through comparison if what you’re doing is working.  If you’re not getting the results you’d like, then you’ll have to make changes – Saint decided to go full Paleo and strength training after deciding his measurements, photos, and body fat weren’t where they should be.  The more you can track, the better chance you’ll have to succeed.
Who’s on your support team? Who do you turn to when you’re having a bad day?  Who do you share your successes and struggles with?  It’s okay if you exercise alone – there’s a whole community of people waiting to welcome you with open arms and help.  You don’t need to go it alone.

Saturday, July 2, 2011

Naughty Carbs, Stop Keeping Me From My Goals

Are grains making us fat? 
Carbs are personally my weakness, I tend to go overboard. 
This video explains the reason why my habits were stopping me from reaching my past goals.
(not talking about good carbohydrates like veggies, fruit, and sweet potatoes)
This 3 minute video breaks it down to you how your cells react to fats and carbohydrates.
I'm looking into trying the Paleo "Diet" to see if all this brown rice and beans are
really the culprit of hiding my 6 pack ;) ha
Look it up yourself if your interested we can try it out together 

watch this too. ------->

Friday, July 1, 2011

Lazy Days Go Away Come Again Another Day





We've all had days where we just didn't want to do ANYTHING.
It’s raining out, you didn’t get enough sleep, it’s cold, you’re hungry, you had a crappy day at work, your wife cheated on you, your boyfriend dumped you, your dog ate your homework, whatever.  It’s these moments when we just want to curl up on the couch, play video games, and feel sorry for ourselves. 
However – and I know this isn’t a surprise to you – these are the moments when its MOST IMPORTANT to stay on target
 to stay consistent, to keep training, and to keep pushing.  If you let yourself off the hook every time you have a bad day, you’ll train yourself to believe it’s okay to give up any time you meet resistance.
For me, on days like these, I'm prepared whenever I'm lacking that fire under my butt.
I look up inspiring quotes, talk to a fitness buddy...
Find whatever you need for motivation and remember to seek it out on your laziest days.
And remember all of you guys have ME! Shoot me an email and let me know about whatever is going on. I want to hear from you guys
I'll talk you through it, and heck, hopefully if I am having one of those days...you can help even ME through :)

Enjoy your 4th of July weekend everyone!

Monday, June 27, 2011

Guinea Pigs and Thinking BIG



Okay 2 things really quick.
As many of you know I have made the transition from Los Angeles to San Luis Obispo
and I'm offering personal training ALL summer to ANYONE for FREE.
So if you live in the area, whether you have met me personally or not, just shoot me a message and you can set something up whenever we both have a free half hour any day during the week
Then we can go over each of your individual goals and you decide if maybe you just want to do a few workouts with me a week...or up to 6 times a week
Being hardcore never hurt anyone ;)
We'll be hitting Bishops, around the Cal Poly track or even the beach. You pick the place Ill design your workout.

Now some quick things I got from a wonderful new book that I'm reading called "The Magic of Thinking Big" by David Schwartz Ph.D.
It sure has lite a fire under my a$$ for the week.... and Im only on chapter 3
Here's a few key points I jotted down while reading.

Remind yourself regularly that you are better than you think you are. And believe it with all your heart.
Believe Big, think little goals and expect little achievement.
Refuse to talk about your health, its a bad habit. (And quite boring)
Never underestimate yours or overestimate others intelligence. Remind yourself everyday "My attitudes are more important than my intelligence."
Don't be a wishful thinker, we don't succeed through simply luck.
Action cures fear. Hesitation only magnifies fear.
Boost your confidence by recalling pleasant experiences, do this in moments whenever your bored or alone.
Doing whats right keeps your confidence satisfied.
To think confidently, act confidently.
Always sit up front.
Make eye contact.
Walk 25 percent faster.
Speak Up.
Smile Big.

Remember Monday is a brand new week, forget about the last and lets rock these next 7 days out!

Saturday, June 25, 2011

12 Minute Ab Challenge

Attention everyone I found my role model for the rest of the year.



Say hello to Zuzana. This Russian is obviously in immaculate shape and has some SWEEET work outs.
Her and her husband come up with carefully peiced, new short exercises everyday, and puts them up on the Internet for people all over the world to follow them. Literally.
Australia, Europe, Mexico, Canada people all over have been tuning in and getting their butts kicked.
I can't believe more people don't know about this site!
They're all really intense but usually only around 12 to 20 minutes.
She puts up videos as well as writes each exercise below and how long to do each.
I dare anyone to try this new exercise and not be hooked to high intensity, low time workouts.
Totally beats the hour long workouts of long endurance cardio or simple weights that make you exhausted for the rest of the day.

I tried this 12 minute challenge for my core.
Got in, got out, and was energized for the rest of the day.
Then the next morning I even woke up sore.
Awesome? Yes.
These are hard for both men and women alike, well actually its as hard as you want to make it depending on how fast you can manage to go.
Don't be intimidated!
All you need is a timer (most phones have one already installed).
This workout flies by, you'll be done before you know it
Let me know what you think :)
http://www.bodyrock.tv/2011/05/31/amazing-abs-workout/

Friday, June 17, 2011

How to Cheat on Your Diet

1. Follow the 90/10 rule
It's understandable that you won't be able to follow your weight loss diet 100% perfect all the time and allowing yourself to cheat sometimes helps keep you on your diet longer making you lose more weight so...
  • Only Try to be perfect 90% of the time and...
  • Only cheat 10% of the time so for example...
  • If your eating 5 meals a day to lose weight then that means you're eating about 35 meals a week and if you cheat 10% of the time
  • Then 3-to-4 of the meals you eat during the week can be cheat meals 
2. Don't overeat just because it's your cheat day (or cheat meal)
For example...
If you're supposed to eat 1,500 calories a day to lose weight - Don't eat 2,000-to-3,000 calories on your cheat day because if you overeat - you'll gain weight no matter if you're eating weight loss foods or bad foods for weight loss so remember this: A cheat day is just a day where you can eat whatever you want but NOT as much as you want but
One day of overeating once every 2-to-3 weeks won't ruin your weight loss goals

3. Eat mostly bad high protein foods
If you're going to have a cheat day or cheat meal and eat bad foods for weight loss... try to eat mostly bad high protein foods instead of lots of simple sugar loaded bad carbs because simple carbs will only make you crave for more weight-gaining simple carbs plus simple carbs are stored more easily as fat and...
Although the saturated & transaturated fats in the bad high protein foods are unhealthy for you... The bad high protein foods will still suppress your appetite and bad high protein foods will still increase your metabolism 
Here's an example of a good cheat meal vs. a bad cheat meal using fast food places as an example...
  • Good cheat meal
    Chicken from KFC with a small sized soda = lots of high protein from chicken with little sugar from soda.
  • Bad cheat meal
    Burger, small fries, & small soda from McDonalds' = lots of bad simple carbs from burger bun, fries, and soda with little protein from burger.

Thursday, June 16, 2011

Three Weeks To Conquer Three Bad Habits

Setting one goal a week again. Conquering it and then going on to the next bad habit the following week.
Starting today, time to get back into kick butt shape again!
Working out normally finally ever since my foot is all better. Now just needing to kick these bad habits.
(If I don't write them down and share them, the probability of actually following through will be less)
What do you want to add or cut out this week?
Writing down on a calendar is helpful. Everytime you successfully made it through the day make a big X on that day. Congrats!
Remember the key to success with these is focusing at only one thing per week and really killing those bad habits!
Here is my three week goal :)
Week One- No Eating After Dinner
Week Two- No Junk Food
Week Three- No Eating Out

Piece o cake.

Monday, June 13, 2011

BORE-litical

The poor elliptical has gotten such a bad rap.
Probably because I've helped spread the word of how this gym machine is only for the elderly and injured.
And yes I've told anyone who wants to see actual results to stay far away from this cardio machine and move on to the next.
However, recently I have found a loop hole for the ellipti-lovers that just can't seem to grow on the other cardio machines like the treadmill, row machine, or StairMaster.
This 20 minute routine I use kicks your butt. It definitely kicked mine today...
But warning its going to be harder than usual.
(Sorry, reading-a-magazine-while-working-out people, your not going to be able to with this quick method. Sweat dripping in your eyes makes it a little difficult to read.)

Make sure you get on an elliptical that you can adjust the incline.

2 min: put the resistance on fairly easy (about 5) and incline low(to about 5) but pedal extra fast to keep the strokes per minute higher than 170
2 min: then put the incline up as high as it can go and put the resistance to the point where your struggling to step about 16 or more
1 min: breathe. put it down to the low incline and 1 resistance and walk slowly

REPEAT 1 MORE TIME. WALHA! done and done.

If you try it let me know what you thought!

Monday, June 6, 2011

I Stumbled Upon

some amazing tips from Men Health Magazine. Thought I'd better share :)


Build Better Abs

Don't work your abdominal muscles every day. "Physiologically
, your abs are like any other muscle in your body," Train them only
2 or 3 days a week.

Protect Your Neck

Put your tongue on the roof of your mouth when you do crunches.
"It will help align your head properly, which helps reduce neck strain,"
 says Michael Mejia, C.S.C.S., Men's Health exercise advisor..

Grow Muscle, Save Time

Keep your weight workouts under an hour. After 60 minutes, your
 body starts producing more ofthe stress hormone cortisol, which
can have a testosterone-blocking, muscle-wasting effect.
Strengthen Your Core
Don't be afraid of situps. We've changed our tune on these, and here's
 why: Situps increase your range of motion, which makes your abdominals
 work harder and longer.(Doing crunches on a Swiss ball or with a rolled-
up towel under your lower back has a similar effect.)
Just avoid situps with anchored feet, which can hurt your lower back.
Buy Shoes That Fit
Shop for workout shoes late in the day. That's when your feet are the
 largest. Make sure there's a half inch of space in front of your longest
toe, and that you can easily wiggle your toes. Then slip off the shoes and
compare them with your bare feet. If each shoe isn't obviously wider and longer
 than your foot, go half a size bigger.

Kill Your Excuse

If you think you're too busy to exercise, try this experiment: For one day, schedule
 a time to work out, and then stick to it—even if you can exercise for only 10 minutes.
"At the end of the day, ask yourself if you were any less productive than usual," says
John Jakicic, Ph.D., an exercise psychologist at the Brown University school of medicine.
The answer will probably be no—and your favorite excuse will be gone.

Muscle Up Your Back

When doing lat pulldowns, don't wrap your thumb around the bar. Instead, place it on top,
alongside your index finger. This decreases the involvement of your arm muscles, so you'll
 work your back harder. Works for pullups, too.

Drink A Pint, Get Ripped

If you're a beginner, train to failure—the point at which you absolutely can't do another repetition
—then throw back a pint. In a new study, beginners who trained to failure with three sets
of six exercises per day then drank a supplement immediately afterward gained over 5 pounds of
 muscle in just 8 weeks. A pint of 1 percent chocolate milk will provide all the nutrients you need
to achieve the same result.

Lose Your Weak Spot

If you don't like an exercise, start doing it. "You're probably avoiding it because you're
 weak at it," says Mejia.

Cut Pain, Increase Gain

Count your repetitions backward. When you near the end of the set, you'll think about how
many you have left instead of how many you've done.

Keep Your Stats, See Amazing Results

Test yourself often. Every 4 weeks, measure a variable—waist size, body fat, bench press—
that equates to your end goal. "It'll show you the tangible results of your training," says Craig
 Ballantyne, C.S.C.S., a trainer in Canada. And that translates into motivation.

Kill the Pill

Don't pop a pill after you work out. Researchers at the University of Arkansas for Medical
 Sciences found that ibuprofen (Advil, Motrin) and acetaminophen (Tylenol) were no more
effective than a placebo in relieving postexercise muscle soreness. More important, they
say the drugs may actually suppress muscle growth when taken after a workout.
Blow Off Your Belly
Exhale forcefully at the top of the movement when you do abdominal crunches. It forces your
 abs to work harder

Heal Faster

Don't exercise when you're sick—unless your symptoms are above the neck. And
 even then you might do better taking a day off. "Your body will use its resources to heal
 itself, not build muscle and endurance," says Alwyn Cosgrove, C.S.C.S., a trainer in
Santa Clarita, California.

Pick Up Your Pace

Increase the speed of your running strides—not their length—to get faster. Your
foot should always land under your body, rather than out in front of it, and you should
 push off with the toes of your rear leg for propulsion.

Ride More Efficiently

Practice cycling one-legged to ride more efficiently. This forces you to concentrate on
pulling up at the bottom of the stroke, which better distributes the work among the
major leg muscles. Lock both feet on your pedals, but let your left leg go limp while
you do all the work with your right leg. Do this for 30seconds, then switch legs. Ride
normally for 5 minutes, then repeat the drill. Continue this way for a 20- to 30-minute workout.

Pay Now, Build Later

Pay your trainer in advance. "You'll be more likely to follow through on exercise
 sessions," says Mejia.

Flatten Your Gut

Work your invisible abdominal muscles. Your transversus abdominis
lies beneath your rectus abdominis
—the six-pack muscle—and flattens your waistline when you suck in your gut. Work
 it with the vacuum: Pull your belly button toward your spine and hold for 10 seconds
while breathing normally. Repeat five times.

Stretch for Strength

Between sets, take 20 to 30 seconds to stretch the muscle you just worked.
Boston researchersfound that men who did this increased their strength by 20 percent.

Repair Muscle Faster

Recover faster from a hard workout by lightly exercising the same muscles
the following day. Use a light weight—about 20 percent of the weight you
can lift one time—and do two sets of 25 repetitions. This will deliver more blood and
 nutrients into your muscles so they repair faster.

Dress Better

Buy only workout clothes that are black, white, or gray. They'll go with everything,
 and you'll never again waste time looking for a T-shirt that matches your gold-and
-purple Lakers shorts.

Save Time in the Gym

Don't worry about specific rest periods between sets. Instead, rest as you need it
—less in your early sets when your muscles are fresh, and more as they become
 fatigued. "You'll cut your workout time between 15 and 20 percent," says Staley

Build Arms Faster

Work opposing muscle groups—your biceps and triceps, for instance—back-to-back for a faster workout.
 "While one muscle is working, the other is forced to rest," says Staley. You won't need as much time
 between sets.

Improve Balance

Use a sofa cushion to improve your balance. Stand one-legged on the cushion and move a medicine ball
 (or a 1-gallon milk jug or heavy phone book) from hand to hand, side to side, and behind your head.
Once you've mastered the move, try it with your eyes closed. "You'll improve your balance, coordination,
and body control, all important athletic attributes," says Greg Brittenham, assistant coach of player
development for the New York Knicks.

Get Stronger Fast

Do the same amount of exercise in 10 percent less time. It forces your muscles to work harder and
 improves your endurance at the same time. If it takes you 30 minutes to do a full-body workout on
Monday, try to do it in 27 minutes on Wed.

Do More Chinups

Don't think about pulling yourself up when you do chinups. Instead, imagine pulling your elbows down.
The exercise will seem easier.

Climb Like Spiderman

For rock or wall climbing, buy shoes that fit your bare feet so tightly you can stand but not walk
comfortably. They'll give you optimal control, and you'll be better able to use your legs—the key to
successful climbing.

Run Injury-Free

One week out of every six, cut your weekly training mileage and frequency in half. You'll give your body a
 better chance to recover, and you'll avoid permanent, nagging injuries

Be More Flexible

Spend twice as much time stretching your tight muscles as your flexible muscles. "Focus on problem
 areas instead of muscles that are already flexible," says Bill Bandy, Ph.D., a professor of physical
therapy at the University of Central Arkansas. Typical problem areas for men: hamstrings, shoulders,
and lower back.

Recover Faster

When you're recovering from a muscle injury, begin exercising again as soon as you can. Try a few
minutes at low intensity to test yourself. Go slowly—no explosive movements. If you experience pain,
stop immediately. Afterward, ice the area for 20 minutes and exercise again the next day. You should be
able to go a little harder and longer each workout.

Reach Your Goals

Set your goals in reverse. That is, pick a date of completion and work backward, writing down short-term
goals as you go. "The goals then seem more like deadlines," says Ballantyne.

Run Hills Faster

When running uphill, keep your head up and your eyes focused on the top of the hill. This opens your
 airways, making it easier to breathe than if your upper body were hunched forward.

Sit Back, Squat More

Use a bench to squat with perfect form. That is, stand in front of the bench when you squat. Lower
yourself as if you were sitting down. When your butt touches the bench, push yourself back up. Try it
with a light bar or a broomstick first.

Shake Your Muscles

Eat immediately after your workout. A 12-week study conducted by Danish researchers found that older
 men who drank a shake with 10 grams of protein, 7 grams of carbohydrate, and 3 grams of fat (about
 the same as in a cup of milk) within 5 minutes after their weight workout gained muscle, but men who
consumed the drink 2 hours later did not. For a serious postworkout muscle-building shake, try this
 formula from Thomas Incledon, M.S., R.D.: Blend a half cup of fat-free frozen chocolate yogurt, a
quarter cup of egg substitute, a cup of fat-free milk, a large banana, and a tablespoon of unsweetened
cocoa powder, and drink. You'll down 23 grams of protein, 52 grams of carbs, and only 4 grams of fat.

Get Stronger Legs

Do lunges in reverse. This forces your front leg to work throughout the entire exercise. Use the same
movement pattern as in a traditional lunge, but step backward instead of forward

Use Iron, Get The Lead Out

Lift weights to run faster. A study in the Journal of Applied Physiology found that 8 weeks of resistance
training improved experienced runners' 5-K times by 30 seconds.

Save Your Back

Squeeze your butt muscles when you lift weights over your head. "You'll force your body into a position
 that automatically stabilizes your spine, which lowers your risk of back injuries," says Staley.

For a Better Warmup, Train Your Brain

Don't forget to warm up your brain. "Preparing your central nervous system for activity is just as
important as preparing your muscles," says Vern Gambetta, former director of conditioning for the
 Chicago White Sox. That's because your central nervous system tells your muscles when to contract.
Try standing on one leg while you squat down, and touch the floor in front of it with your opposite hand.
Do two sets of 10 to 12 repetitions with each leg. 

Save Your Calves

If you're a runner and your calves feel tight when you wake up in the morning, try sleeping on your
 stomach with your feet hanging off the bed. Gravity will take over, lightly stretching the calf muscles all
night.

Go Short, Get Fast

Go faster for shorter distances to improve your running form. You'll not only perform better, but you'll
 also be less susceptible to injuries.

Stay Healthy

If you're not exercising at all, just try to fit in two 20-minute aerobic or weight-training sessions a week.
 Researchers at Oklahoma State University examined absentee records of 79,000 workers at 250 sites
 and found that those who did this minimal amount of exercise had fewer sick days than those who didn't
 exercise at all.

Isolate and Grow

Exercise one arm at time. Do a set of shoulder presses with your left arm, then do a set with your right.
 "You'll get higher-quality sets than if you work both arms at the same time," says Ballantyne.

Come Clean

Throw all your dirty workout clothes into one mesh laundry bag. At the end of the week, tie a knot in
 the bag and throw it in the washer. You'll always know where your favorite workout shirts are, and you
 won't have to touch your sweat socks when they're fully ripe.

Squat for a Six-Pack

Do squats and deadlifts . . . to build your abs. Research shows that these two exercises force your
abdominal muscles to do a significant amount of work to maintain your posture.

Run Longer, Easier

When you run, breathe so that your belly rises as you inhale. This ensures that your lungs are
 inflating fully with oxygen, so you'll be able to go longer. Practice by lying on your back and placing
a book on your stomach. The book should rise when you breathe in.

Replace Your Shoes (Not Your Knees)

To avoid injuries, write an "expiration date" on your shoes as soon as you buy them. Shoes last about 500
 miles, so simply divide 500 by your average weekly mileage to determine how many weeks your shoes
 are likely to last.

Get Up and at 'Em

If you want to exercise before work but aren't a morning person, try this trick: For a set period—say,
 4 weeks—force yourself to get up 15 minutes earlier than normal and do any type of physical activity
 (walking, for instance). "Make it so easy that you don't even have to change into your workout clothes,"
says John Raglin, Ph.D., an exercise researcher. As you near the end of the 4 weeks, you'll have a new
 habit and will then be able to progress to greater amounts of exercise.

Avoid Burnout

To see if you're overtraining, check your pulse first thing in the morning the day after a workout. If it's
 10 beats per minute or more above normal, your body is still recovering.

Build Real Strength

Don't use machine weights exclusively. A study at Georgia State University found that older adults
using exercise machines improved their strength on the machines an average of 34 percent in 2 years.
 But their strength measures for everyday activities actually declined 3.5 percent

Feed Your Muscles

Satisfy your sugar cravings immediately after your workout. Eat at least 20 grams along with some
protein. The sugar will help carry protein to the muscles you've just worked. So have a soda with your
 tuna sandwich, but limit your sugar intake the rest of the day.

End Back Pain

For every set of abdominal exercises you perform, do a set of lower-back exercises. Focusing only on
your abs can lead to poor posture and lower-back pain.

Stop Screwing Up

Don't try to lose your gut by working your abs. Researchers at the University of Virginia found that it
 takes 250,000 crunches to burn 1 pound of fat—that's 100 crunches a day for 7 years.

Sunday, June 5, 2011

Rolemodels




My role models growing up were people that looked nothing like me. And could never look anything like me.
I had posters and magazine cut outs of thin leggy 6 foot girls with waists that curved in and hips that curved out. Usually the opposite hair color as me, freckle-less skin, and a "rack" that all the boys could never stop talking about in my middle school 4th period class.
But here I was, always the opposite. 
I was sure I could dye my hair, tan, and promise myself only cardio everyday and veggies for life. 
However my genetics had given me a boyish figure where my waist blended into my hips no matter how much weight I lost, when my makeup came off my freckles would still always be there, and lets just say when I gained a pound it decides to go to every body part EXCEPT my "rack".

I used to go to sleep to the video, The Secret a few years back  and after a few times I noticed one part that always stuck out in my head. Something I could relate to that would give me a big reality check.  
During the YOU segment, Lisa Nicholas would appear on the screen as one of the life teachers.
She said growing up she looked up to role models like Wonder Woman, Cat Woman, etc.
All white superhero girls that looked nothing like her. It made her sad. 
She was a bigger boned African American girl, with a curly hair afro who looked nothing like the people she looked up and wanted to be. She wasn't too happy about it.
It wasn't until she learned how to love herself with her mocha skin, her big hips, lips, and hair that she could let go and be happy.

I think being the best person you can possibly be is absolutely amazing.'
But comparing ourselves to our opposites and putting ourselves down.... what's the point in that? 
We need to stop looking at our role models with envy because we can never be them. Be happy for those people and then look at yourself. Love yourself because no one will ever be You. I'll say it again...
No one will EVER be you BUT you!
Now that's probably the most beautiful thing I've ever heard of.
Now go out there and kick-a$$ with what yo mamma gave ya! :)

On a side note:
Just moved to San Luis Obispo and I am back blogging until someone steals my computer again.
I am so sorry loyal readers I promise to never abandon you again. How dare I!

 Make it a great day everybody :)
 

Tuesday, April 19, 2011

Happy Medium


I gave up blogging for awhile because it was getting to be too much.
Not "too much", like I was sick of writing though!
Oh no no no never, this past couple months have been the most fun ever typing on the patio of the Coffee Bean.
 I mean, "too much" like, getting too caught up in writing, studying, blogging, working in the field of Health and Fitness. It was kinding taking over my life I'm not going to try and lie.
I needed to be able to sit quietly and do something else I loved.... or hey, even just do absolutely nothing.

That's something I think I need to work on. Finding a darn happy medium.
I realize I wrap myself up into a topic so much I soon exhaust myself of the topic entirely. 
And then in my case, I don't slow down.... I just abruptly stop and take my focus elsewhere.
And I'm not just talking about how I went from blogging everyday to not blogging for almost a month.
I catch myself getting really into something and then getting over it really quickly over many things.
Am I the only one who does this? 
Because I'm beginning to feel a like the flightiest person on the planet when I look at my behavior sometimes.
I look at my self and tell myself "I'm just being spontaneous" for self justification
But even I think I need to draw the line with myself sometime, haha.
Can anyone relate?
Have you ever started going to the gym and found yourself really getting addicted to it? 
You find yourself going everyday, sometimes twice a day with your friend, weekends, weekdays whatever.
Then BOOM something happens. You don't go once which is followed by failing to go back for the next three months...
Yep, Ive done it. More than a few times.
Or you start cutting out sweets little by little where your so used to not eating dessert. To th point where that unhealthy itch stops becoming a craving altogether for months.
Then BOOOOM. Uh oh, not againnnnnn 
you have fro-yo once and you remember how delicious this treat is.
It's like you've had this demon released in you and now you want candy and muffins for every meal that entire week.....
Ive definitely done it.

I think the key to a healthy lifestyle needs to be finding a happy medium and stopping myself from trying to go all "hardcore".
 Maybe then I'll avoid the spiral downwards into "I-dont-give-a-sh*t- land".
Time to kick this Yo-Yo habit, one baby step at a time. 
And in the meantime I'll just keep telling myself this is normal 

Yay nice to talk to everyone again. I really missed you guys :)

Monday, March 28, 2011

To The People Always On A Diet

It took me awhile to fully understand that eating healthy and working out wasn't just for getting to a certain destination (body size).
I would yo yo and yo yo back and forth. From that weight, to this weight. Cutting out carbs all together, to eating ONLY carbs.
With so many "rules" we hear from advise from our friends, read in magazines, were told by our parents, We have been blinded from actually LISTENING and FEELING what our bodies are telling us we need.
And instead were going by guidelines we think we must follow to lose weight or whatever health goals we have.
As you know, deciding to go on a diet usually starts like this.
We wake up one day look in the mirror or hop on a scale and see the results from the month we took "time off" from the gym and making meals at home.
We then make an oath to 'punish' ourselves. (In otherr words we declar ourselves were going on a DIET...ooooOO)
Then we all  have our own diets we like to try, we limit our calories, we cut out main food groups, we don't eat when were hungry but when we think we've gone long enough, or skip breakfast or dinner. Or worse have a soda for lunch. Promise ourselves to hit the gym twice a day everyday for two weeks.
And we expect ourselves to stick to this!?
We are pretty crazy people.
Because when we try to deprive ourselves and set these strict rules we set for ourselves as punishment for being 'bad', we sooner or later do what our body natural does..... we rebel like the lost boys.
It's a pretty horrible feeling this process. Followed immediatly by guilt, depression, the feeling of weakness.

A few years ago 5 pounds after my weekend cruise of bingeing on sweets and tequila,  I was ready to lose the weight IMMEDIATLY not next month, right now gosh darn it.
I mean, if someone wouldve told me then that I shouldn't 'punish' myself for letting lose and not to rush to lose 2 1/2 pounds per week for the next few weeks, I would have punched them in the face and told them to mind their own bees wax.
After all I feel disgusting and they have no idea what it's like... right?

It's hard to learn but once you really start to believe and understand that weight and body shape is not a destination but a FOREVER journey to maintain your natural, healthy, specially-meant-and-designed-for-you body weight. You will yo yo from diet to diet in diet HELL.
What I mean by your natural, healthy, specially-meant-and-designed-for-you body weight is the weight you are when you only eat when your hungry, stop when your full, and are average active at least three days a week.
I know.... but you want to be magazine perfect, right? That will be the only way to ever be happy.
.........nope, let me tell you a little story

Ive been at the best shape of my life three years ago... lowest weight, lowest body fat lean mean training machine. Working with a trainer, ate the same thing everyday. Was it maintainable?
Absolutely not.
Could I not ever eat out again, measure six proportioned little meals per day, train an hour high intensity cardio everyday, and never eat a carb again?
I would never ever ever wish to be that size again....
And even though I can daydream about how great I looked back in the day, I would never try for that again.
IN THE END I WASN'T HAPPY.
I mean how could I be?  I had alienated myself from friends, my mood swings were everywhere, and keeping this crazy body composition maintained, it was like going against my own natural current.
Took over all my energy and focus from my family, school, work. My life.
So I guess what I'm trying to say from my own personal experience is that a number on a scale isn't going to magically make you love yourself.
Seeing 115 isn't going to make your life better.
You've got to love your body now even the lumps, the bumps, and cellulite (or whatever). and pay attention to when your body is asking for instead of what rules you think you should follow.
When your body is thirsty and needs hydration drink liquids. When your tummy is grumbling, eat.
There is no exact diet you must follow or certain times or portions you must eat.
It really simple stop and breath. Take your time with food. Ask yourself if your hungry constantly. (While you eat and even when your not eating.) Make everytime you work out or eat feel like a meditation session.
Smile :)
It's okay to change unhealthy habits, Im not saying it's not. But, focus on changing one bad habit at a time. Bad habits like eating when your not hungry, eating past your comfortable fullness, eating things that aren't good for your body (tons of sweets).
Stop dieting and start living like I did. Stop the mentality of punishing yourself and instead start being gentle and love yourself today.
In this world we are in now.... it's a hard concept to take in. But the sooner you completely understand that dieting is self destructing, not a solution, you WILL be set free :)
You choose when to start

Sunday, March 20, 2011

29Gifts.com

Today I promise to myself and everyone, to give at least one thing to someone everyday. No matter how big or small, for a family member or a stranger, giving money, encouraging words, an ear to a friend, a smiler or even an item that I own. Im taking the challenge to give one kind, selfless gift once a day for the next 29 days.
I am a true believer that you only get back what you give out.
Looking back now I realize, it's how Ive come to meet some of the greatest people by aquantaince, the career opportunities that have been given to me, the health I have now, the good luck Iv'e been given, and the bond I have with my family.
Yes, I understand this is a health blog and not a "be selfless blog".
But I do believe in order to be a healthy person, you have to be a happy person too... and I believe happy people aren't selfish.

My grandma told me about this challenge which started at the book called "How a month of giving can change your life" and it's website.
I do plan on reading the book in the near future but I was so excited when I saw this website it motivated me and I made my profile just like I made this blog, and found I can hook up to twitter, send pictures from my phone, and talk to other people who are doing the same things :)
I'll be keeping track, taking pictures, and sharing what I do everyday!

Something like this will be good for me right now... living in LA, "single" (not married) and living alone.
It just happens that most of my days consist of thoughts like "what am I going to do", "how can I feel better", "what do I feel like".
Pretty much Me Me Me.
This project gives me a time in my day to think about helping someone else out for a change.
You guys can check out the website and create your own profile too, check out more in depth how this idea came about, why people are so involved, and examples of little gifts.
This is going to be fun! Add me if you join :)

http://www.29gifts.org/profile/JessicaDJames23
And thanks grandma for the idea, you always find me the neatest things to do :)
Love You.

Thursday, March 17, 2011

Im coming out of the closet

not really. I like boys still, not girls, but I do want to share something about me that not many people know about.
It's something Iv'e struggled with on and off for the past 2 years.
I've gone through obstacles trying to keep"this thing" a secret but I'm feeling extra vulnerable and brave lately
Here it goes, I have a syndrome called NES (No, it's not a new form of cancer or even an STD)
NES stands for Night Eating Syndrome.
I'm guessing most of you guys are thinking...... "What the hell does that even mean?"
Well, it's a specific eating disorder that has been documented as far back as in the 1800's and is semi common, about 2 percent of the population is diagnosed with it today.
NES consists of waking up in the middle of the night, usually two hours after I fall asleep and finding myself eating anywhere from a small snack to HALF of my days worth of calories!
The key word is in the MIDDLE of the night. Not late at night, which is pretty common but, I literally can't go a night without having one of these bingeing sessions mid sleep.
Some nights I'm completely conscious of what Im doing in the moment. However, other times I don't realize what I have done until after the fact. Or even in the morning. Each night it depends.
Two years ago I thought it was that maybe I wasn't getting enough calories during the day so my body waking me up was because I was hungry. But that wasn't it I was doing it even if I ate right before bed, I would do this even if I wasn't hungry!
I eat more than enough from morning to night time, usually 2100 calories in a given day.
So it's not because I'm depriving myself of food and my body thinks it's going into starvation mood.


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click this to watch a video about Night Eating Syndrome


My research tells me that causes of NES can be stress, underlying emotions, and sleeping disorders.
I haven't quite figured out which one is causing me to do this but I do know that it's not a good feeling and its exhausting hoping all day long that I won't do it the following night.
No body ever wants to have a 'problem'. It's almost to the point I'd give up anything to not have this disorder.
I feel horrible when I wake up if you could imagine, I have a loss of appetite throughout the following day, I feel restless, guilt, and the worst side effect that bothers me the most?... it's fricking embarrassing.
I mean it's okay if I'm staying the night at my studio apartment alone but what if I'm not home? ?
If I don't make a conscious effort to bring food to stay the night with me (because I know theres a 90 percent chance I'll care less whose food ill be eating at 3 am) I'll just eat theirs! Not on purpose but it happens.
These people know what I'm talking about and I'm apologizing right now with my imaginary tail between my legs. Im sorry I had no control.

At first when I found myself waking up each night again and again I thought I was rebelling against myself, it was just a bad habit that I needed to break, or was sleep walking.
But, after doing my research on the web and came across the attached video below, I then fully understood what was going on.
That's when I thought... "Hmmm I think I might want to see someone about this".
I called my mom, whose one of the only people whose known about this for awhile, for support and marched myself to the Bella Eating Disorders Center in Glendale where  they specialize in NES.
Im going to continue going to a few group therapy sessions with this specialist and am on my way to kicking this' things' butt!
My point sharing this to everyone is to educate people that eating disorders (any kind) can happen to anyone.
No one's perfect. Obviously,I sure am hell not.
Perhaps you  may realize you have NES yourself or if you have anything else personally that you've been keeping a secret and need to get off your shoulders, it's okay to let it out.
It may even be a huge weight off your shoulders. I know right now that how I feel.

Anyways, my point is just to let everyone know that they aren't alone and I'm owning up to my own personal imperfections. I'm done hiding.
Like I always say... It's okay if you aren't perfect but the first thing to do in order to fix yourself, is to acknowledge and own up to what's broken.
Baby steps.

Wednesday, March 16, 2011

Ordinary Girl's "Grocery List" #3


#3 "Why we eat more than we think: Mindless Eating" by Brian Wansink, Ph. D
I feel like whenever I talk about a book I never am quite able to express just HOW good it is.
I obviously wouldn't refer a book to anyone if I didn't think it would 1) make an impact on the way you see dieting or working out 2) be actually enjoyable, funny, interesting to read.
So know matter how much I lack important detail, your just going to have to trust me and go get the darn book.
I read this in four days and I can honestly say I will never over-eat unless its on PURPOSE, ever again.
This awesome book was recommended to me by my friend from Santa Clara, whose physiology class required her to read .... (Thank you Maxine!) :)

Brian's writes about his life which consists of numerous studies he conducts that revolutionizes our awareness of how much, what, and why we're eating. The answers he finds are bonkers.
This book will literally change the way you will think about your next meal.
What does your favorite comfort food say about you?
Can the size of your plate really influence your appetite?
Why do you eat more when you dine with friends?
Here's just an example in the book that specifically stuck in my head for some reason. Brian does one study where he places four bowls on a table and tells the "lab rats" not to move the bowl. What they don't know is that two of them have a hole on the bottom that is connected to a hidden tube that slowly seeps a little more tomato soup in it slowly, little by little so it doesn't look too suspicious. They are given twenty minutes to eat. The two people with normal bowls eats about one can of soup. The people with the trick bowl ate THREE cups of soup! that's 300 more calories! They were even eating after the twenty minutes were up.

Conclusion: We stop eating when there's no more food, we continue when there is abundance.
There's a ton of other crazy things Brian and his team put together and almost every outcome is astounding!
We don't pay attention to when were hungry or full. We use time to tell us it's dinner time and time to eat. We have plates that we eat until everythings gone, that's when we stop eating. Even the people around us determine how much we eat. When their done we're done, right? Your not going to keep sitting at the table eating when everyone's left the restaurant, are you?
It sounds simple. "Eat when you hungry."
But it's much more complex than that.
You'll never look at portions the same again after you read this!

Tuesday, March 15, 2011

Ordinary Girl's "Grocery List" #2

#2 Arctic Zero
My second discovery is this yummy find that I plan on indulging in for my treat meal every weekend until I get tired of it. Which might take quite awhile since it does come in not only nummy maple vanilla but, coffee, cookies n cream, chocolate, chocolate peanut butter, mint chocolate chip, and strawberry banana.
only 150 calories and not just per serving but for the WHOLE DARN PINT.

That's right, this Arctic Zero pint of ice cream from Whole Foods was like unlocking a huge hidden secret. Why doesn't anyone know about this?
You don't have to try and control yourself by taking out 1/4 of the ice cream and hoping you have the will power to not grab it back out of the fridge for more 20 minutes later.
You can just pull out a spoon and eat the whole thing in one sitting and you've only had 150 calories.
Of course you don't want to do this all the time because even though its fat free, virtually carb free, it does have a good chunk of sugar in it.
(Which we should know is wayyy worse than even fat for your body)
But if you clean eat for five days, Monday through Friday, you deserve this for your cheat meal.
You'll get to feel like your being bad, without the tummy ache and guilt attached.
Plus it's only $4.50.
At the frozen yogurt joint by your house you can get the same size thing for the same price or more.

I wouldn't post this if I didn't think you would enjoy this too. And I guess you all know what I'll be eating on the weekends around 9pm. I'm hooked. :D
#3 up tomorrow!

Monday, March 14, 2011

'Ordinary Girl Grocery List' #1

I bought three things that made my heart smile last month:
A new book, a pint of ice cream, and frog feet looking shoes.
And after these few weeks of reading, running, and eating my new goodies
I figured it would be rude to keep these awesome things all to myself for much longer
So lets get to the list...
#1 Vibram Five Fingers Shoes

These crazy looking shoes that I kept seeing people working out in at the gym, are actually better for your feet than your 150 hundred dollar nikes.
These are specifically for the running and hiking fans that are tired of the extra bulky feeling on their feet.
Have you ever seen people running barefoot along the tide for miles and thought, "ouch"?
Well apparently these people are doing something right.
A new study came out that proved that all the cushion, air lift, arch support, etc is actually RUINING our feet in the long run!
Our feet are made for barefeet walking so unless we live in the snow and need to keep our feet warm, these Vibrams are the closest way to sanitarily stretch our toes and will prevent foot problems far into the future.
Haha I know, yeah, they arn't the most normal looking shoes but they are the shiznits.
I got a few confused looks at first when walking into my class but mostly I get asked about them because people are so interested and open to these different looking footsies.
I mean they are flying off the shelves with more and more people in the United States finding out about them.
Actually, you should call a store ahead if you want to go buy them, just to make sure their in stock.
I got my new green pair for 99 dollars at Sports Chalet :)
(My grandpa was with me and got a pair himself too. He wants to start training for the Senior Olympics. He's so cool.)

The only downfall is that you have to get your feet used to wearing these. I wouldn't reccomend running more than a mile in them. Put them on around the house, to the store etc, because you have to train yourself to walk more on the balls of your feet instead of putting all the weight on your heels like we've been conditioned to do...which is the wrong way.
You get sore the first week you are active in them because your working different muscles than you usually do. Your legs get used to the change after awhile.

If you don't believe me check out the website and decide for yourself if it's worth the cash or not. http://www.vibramfivefingers.com

Digest this, go buy them, or tell a running friend, and I'll put up the second thing I bought last month, tomorrow

It's Monday so you know what that means, make yourself start of this week with a bang and go break a sweat! ;)

Tuesday, March 8, 2011

My new job may be the death of me

....not literally, but If you have ever worked in the restaurant business, I know you catch my drift.

A year ago I got my first restaurant job at a hot wings and beer place.
(yes I sported the orange shorts, embarrassing but it happened. anyways, moving on.)
Before then I had never been into fast food, breaded wings, or desserts.
It's hard to explain but, until you surrounded by hundreds of people and just the smell of this bad-for-you food in general all day everyday.... you start to get the illusion that it's okay to eat this kind of stuff every shift.
Plus its practically FREE. I mean, who can reject cheap food?
Apparently not me.
All the sudden I was craving the greasy stuff all day long. During my shift, after my shift, late at night, even in the morning.
My taste buds were really getting used to this stuff and no matter how hard I worked out and promised myself I would start back a healthy diet tomorrow....my body wanted it more.
Then I moved to Los Angeles and got a job at an popular Irish pub in Hollywood.
It wasn't better.
Nachos, bread pudding, and fried avocado? What a disaster.
However, I will say in November I quit that job and found it so easy to transition back to my better habits when I quit.
I started this blog, working out again, cooking, hanging out at whole foods.
yay this was more like it!
But, it's been a few months, And cash is starting to run real low not working.
I'm defiently ready to start making that money again.
Ive been training at this new bar/24 hour restaurant which opens up in two days and I'd be lying if I said that I'm not doubting my will power ability to say "no".

Will I have the strength to say no to the quesadillas that are sent back and offered to the waiters?
Will I break and eat the food everyday on my lunch break? (These aren't small portions people)
Will I sneak a fry or two (or 50) here and there in the kitchen?
(people who work with food don't judge, you know you do it too.)
I MUST STAY STRONG and set some goals for me to resist falling back in the hole I once caught myself falling into.
So here I go. I'm publicly announcing this so you all can hold me accountable.
Here's what I plan to do to avoid this turning into a disaster:

I found a co worker who has the same trouble and is down to help support each other to stay on the right track. We are going to try and hit the gym either before or after work. We will not eat at the restraunt, EVER under any circumstances. Theres a Trader Joe's right next store so no excuses. We will bring snacks for snacking emergencies and it will be good for me to practice saying "no" to free food and remember just because its free doesn't mean it's good.

I can do this.

I can do this.

I can do this.....
Please pray for me just in case though :)

Wednesday, March 2, 2011

What kind of eater are you?

It's not necssarily ALL our fault we eat like sh*t.
& thank goodness because I was starting to get really frustrated with myself....

I stumbled upon an article called, 'What kind of eater are you?' the other day. I enjoyed it personally because not only did it make me feel less weird for having such repetitive bad cravings and eating schedules but....
it also said it wasn't necessarily all MY fault, either.
This was incredible music to my ears.
Anytime I get the chance to not have to take responsibility for my bad actions, I'm going to take it! :)
Maybe some of you will feel better too. It breaks it down like this.

Some of the many different reason we struggle with food stem from the way we were told, how we were raised, and how we are emotionally. I'm not saying however that these are unchangeable habit's because they ARE. However, we don't have to blame ourselves all the time.



The Choatic Eater is completely out of touch with their eating choices and habits. Constantly eating on the go, skipping meals, and over schedule themselves. They deal with food when it present and don't think about it till the next time food comes up.

The Unconscious Eater is never in tune to what their eating. Usually eat while multi-tasking driving, watching TV, cooking, working, reading etc. They'll eat whenever food is available and don't know if they are even hungry or have reached their fullness level. I like to call these zombie eaters too.

The Emotional Eater uses food to numb themselves to cope with something without realizing they are doing so. What they do realize though is that they eat too much. They feel powerless around food, often finishing a whole bag of potato chips without thinking for example.

The Waste Nothing Eater will eat more than they want to because they hate seeing food go to waste. They associate food with money but they dont realize that by doing this they ARE wasting! When food is in abundance they can help but to over eat until the full of  their stomach about to rupture.

The Cant-Say-No Eater is pretty self explanatory, If someone encourages them to eat more than they need or want, or invites them to eat when they just ate...they can't say no. Fearful of hurting or disappointing another persons feelings or impressing someone. A lot of people do this especially over the holidays.

The Restrictive Eaters seem to always be on a diet. The chronic dieter is constantly striving to lose a specific amount of weight, and creating new good and bad food lists they try to adhere to, but in the end they yo-yo between under eating, over eating and eating a whole bunch at once.(Binging) For these people there's little pleasure to eating.
I guess if I went into a BEA (Bad Eaters Anonymous) a year ago, I introduce myself like this
"Hi, I'm Jessica and I'm a unconscious, emotional, waste-not, refuse-not, restrictive eater... and it's not my fault"

Now, If none of these apply to you... gold star for you, me and the rest of the world envy your grace :)
But for all the rest I thought I'd post this for you guys so maybe you'll figure out what kind of eater YOU are.

Habits are easier to fix if you know what your dealing with ;)


Tuesday, March 1, 2011

Get your beast on

Goals Goals Goals.
They're always nice to have, make and then re create and re create.
Besides being on track for YOUR own well being... sometimes it isn't enough motivation for us.
So that why making very specific goals are so important.
They give us an exact point that we want to reach so we can prove to ourselves that we are unstoppable, once we get there.
I'm a little stuck now.
My goal to lose weight is wayyyy in the past and since then I haven't set any goal but to create habits to remain weekly in my life forever.
It's the main goal but I won't reach there until I die so I want to set up like goals to work toward in between now and then.
Theres no right or wrong way, no too big or too little goal.
The point is that you make one, focus in on it, and attack it!

So thank goodness for stumbleupon.com, I found my goal to work toward for these next two month!
(Which is the coolest website. I highly recommend you check it out if you have never before.)

It's a marathon without just the running. It an obstacle course you'd see as a challenge on Survivor. It's the dirtiest marathon obstacle course put on by extreme organizations called Tough Mudder and Warrior Dash.
The course consists of carrying logs, running through "burning houses", fire pits, crawling in the mud under barbwire, and a bunch of other crazy strenuous tasks.
And you thought that sounded hard? Some of them as long as ten miles.
For those of you who know me well this is right up my alley.

Of course I want to compete but I want to do well so I have to start training.
On these websites they have workouts that prepare you  and I'll put those that I think are a  really good workout, in a blog when I start training, for you guys.
So far I know I have one person who definitely wants to participate with me but, I think it would be fun and even more motivating, if I got a coed team together for this!

Here's the links to the websites if any one is interested in getting in shape and competing in something completely different.
Just remember, this isn't for the people who just like getting dressed up in war paint and want a cool shot running through fire for their facebook default, this is serious.

hehe not really so check it out :)
oh and for the beer drinkers, after-party is included. should be a hoot.
www.warriordash.com & www.toughmudder.com